Some people say that it hurts, while others report no pain at all. For many, it refers to penetrative vaginal sex. Penetrative vaginal sex can hurt for many reasons, not just due to the loss of virginity. Some people believe that tearing the hymen , a thin layer that often covers the vagina, explains the pain that some people experience when they first have sex. However, not everyone has a hymen, and even when they do, it may not tear during vaginal sex. The pain may instead come from inadequate lubrication, anxiety that causes muscle spasms, or a partner who rushes or is too forceful.
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That means everything from having condoms on hand to not making out with someone who has an active cold sore going on. So go ahead and have a look at these tips for when you want to have sex for the first time. But whatever you do, it's probably gonna be a little awkward , so just embrace the cringe. It's an excellent secret relationship test. Anyone who has been cool about a queef is probably A-OK. And listen, if you're a little bit nervous or maybe full-on freaking out about your first time having sex, congratulations, you are completely normal!
First-Time Sex: 20 Questions About Losing Your Virginity, Answered
First-time sex can be a tricky, scary and confusing thing. For starters, people define "sex" in different ways. It can include vaginal sex, oral sex, anal sex, and other activities.
There are a lot of myths around sexual activity, one being that your first time having sex will hurt. Others may include oral stimulation, fingering or handjobs, or anal penetration in their definition. Your definition could also include stimulation or penetration with a sex toy. Regardless of the type of sexual activities you want to try, there are a few general tips or rules you can use to make your first sexual experience more comfortable.
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